My Australian Story Part 3 – Our Dance

Do you ever feel like you need a week to just catch up on life?  Things have been so crazy hectic for me the past couple weeks – I feel like I’m behind on everything – including just THINKING!  I have been so busy I’ve barely had time to think!!  I keep wondering when things are going to slow down – get back to “normal” – but my life is just go-go-go.  I don’t see it changing either – I start an intensive summer school course in 2 days and then a new semester so yeah … But this is NOT a complaint.  I’m happy to be busy – I’m just a little surprised I guess.  )

So if you missed the background of “My Australian Story” you can click on the following links to catch up.  )

Where did I leave off?  Oh yes.  We locked eyes in the crowd and then he disappeared.

I was totally ok with it.  Say what?  It may surprise you to learn that I didn’t mind losing him in the crowd but I was in VEGAS of all places – not my ideal place to meet men (no matter how much electricity our gaze may have held.)  But then as I was weaving through a different crowd our eyes met again and my resolve to be stubborn weakened.  He was keeping me in sight – and I liked it.  And there was just something about him…

An exasperated Sheryl grabbed my arm and literally pulled me onto the dance floor.  She said we had to dance to give him the chance to find us.  I resisted.  We were in VEGAS!!  What was the point?

A very drunk Australian came over and tried to dance up on us.  His accent was so heavy.  I told Sheryl he was probably faking it.  LOL!  I ignored the Aussie until Sheryl grabbed me again and said, “What is wrong with you?  This guy is with your boy!  They’re from Australia and are just passing through Vegas for the night.”  Oh roll my eyes!  My already not-going-to-happen Vegas fling just turned into impossible.  He’s from another country?  Now there’s REALLY no point!!  (Btw – this was a year ago ok?  D I am not quite as negative now.  lol.)

And then there he was introducing himself to me, “Hi I’m Dave.”  Choke – cough!  Please he did NOT just say his name was Dave!!!  I hid my laughter.  It figures that would be his name.  Want to know how many Daves I’ve dated?  Too many.

We started talking.  Really talking.  His dating resume was impressive – intelligent, hot, fit, world traveler, ambitious etc.  He really WAS too good to be true – except there he was in front of me and it WAS the truth.

When he tried to kiss me 2 hours later I turned my cheek.   He didn’t give up.  I let him kiss me on the eighth attempt.

Oh if I could only describe the butterflies in my stomach and the smile on my face.  I tried to fight it … but there is no escaping your fate once you are on the right path.  We had to meet.  I had to meet him.  That chance encounter – the dance – the kiss … they were the pebbles tossed into the glass lake of my life whose ripples changed everything.

I spent 5 hours with him.  The chemistry was amazing.  The conversation was amazing.  We clicked.  And when we said goodbye he said the one thing I never expected.  “I WILL see you again.”

What?  How?  He was going back to Australia in a couple hours.  But he looked me directly in the eyes and said it again, “I WILL see you again.”  And as I walked away from him I believed it.  I didn’t know how it would happen – I didn’t know how the whole night had even happened.  But looking at him – those eyes – I knew he meant it.

My Australian Story – Part 2 – A Little Background

How did I come to be in Australia?  This is my story.  If you missed Part 1 last week you can find it here:  My Australian Story – Part 1 – First Sight

Part 2 was supposed to be “We Meet” however the meeting becomes ordinary without the little details that make it extraordinary.  I should never have been there.  That club, that crowd, that city – it was never supposed to be that way – and it almost wasn’t.  It was a series of small, seemingly random and unconnected events which pushed me into his arms.

It began with a student film.  I didn’t even know her!  Our two or three interactions had been limited to the strict structure of acquaintances who have no real desire to know each other.  So when she asked me to be in her film – I was more than a little surprised.  But how could I resist ) ??

When the filming was finished I got ready to go.  Mindless chit-chat during clean-up revealed a Vegas trip planned for that very weekend.  It had been planned for weeks but her friend had just barely canceled.  She was going to go anyway.  Maybe I would like to come?  It was my 26th birthday that weekend.  Hmm … I had plans, a party and a date but in a very uncharacteristic whim I blew it all off to go to Vegas with a girl whose last name I didn’t even know.

Day and Night One – Our first day being – well – friends!   A little hot tub time and dinner out on the town!  Our first pictures together – EVER!  [March 2008]

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The next day we went to the mall (of course we did.)  We’d been shopping for HOURs – it was time to go back to the hotel for more hot tub time.  Sheryl asked, “Do you want to go down that way?  There’s nothing down there.”  It was true.  I looked at her and said, “No – there’s just a Gap.  I hate the Gap.”  We started to walk away.

“Well,” I stopped.  “Actually … I’ll be right back.”  She looked at me like I was crazy and I walked to the end of the level and stopped.  Maybe I was crazy.  There was nothing there except for a Gap – we already knew that.  I hate the Gap.  I wasn’t going to go inside of the Gap.  I hate the Gap.  So what the H.E. double was I doing?  Nothing I guess.  So I stood there looking very solitary for a moment wondering what my deal was and then I turned around and began walking back to Sheryl.

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“Miss!” someone yelled after me – he had just come out of the Gap.  I stopped and waited for him.  “I saw you from inside the store and had to come talk to you.  I’m the VIP Host at Body English.  I’d love to have you come out to our club tonight.  Here’s my card.”

“Oh.  Ok cool thanks.  I’m not sure what we’re doing tonight but …”

“We’re hosting an MTV special tonight. You should come.  Just come to the VIP line and I’ll take care of everything.”

Body English?  We’d never heard of it.  I put his card in my purse and we forgot about it.  Plus we had promised to meet one of my girlfriends from Vegas at Club Tryst – Body English just wasn’t in the cards.

That night as we were ghetto-ing it up for the club the GF called and canceled.  Hmm … now what?  We had VIP passes to a couple places… Maybe we SHOULD give Body English a go?  After all, we wouldn’t have even had the VIP card if I hadn’t been a freak and stood all alone doing nothing for no reason at the end of the mall where there was nothing but the Gap.  I hate the Gap.

We arrived just as the club was at maximum capacity.  But lucky for us – because the guy had scouted me we were put at the front of the line and they closed the line behind us.  2 minutes later and we would have been out of luck.  And it was there, crowded and enmeshed in a throng of people that I locked eyes with HIM for one quick moment – and then he was gone.

Next Week – My Australian Story – Part 3 – Our Dance

My Australian Story – Part 1 – First Sight

HAPPY NEW YEAR (again) – I’ve decided it’s time to tell the story of how I came to be in Australia.  It’s not quite as simple as my deciding I should up and move across the world.  I mean – well – it IS kind of that simple because I did kind of wake up one day and decide I should up and move across the world, HOWEVER, why did I happen to choose Australia?

Would it surprise you very much if I told you it had to do with a student film, a roadtrip to Vegas, and a boy?  It shouldn’t if you’ve been reading this blog.  lol.

I was walking through a crowd – he was walking the other direction.  I looked up to check my surroundings and our eyes met briefly – not more than a second – but it took my breath away.

And then he was gone.

Sheryl was there.  She watched it happen. She puts it better than I ever could have, “Something in you – something in your soul – recognized something in him – and in his.“   Her words burned with truth.  But my logical side kicked in – no, no, that’s silly.  I mean – what happened couldn’t have happened.  How can it be possible to look in someone’s eyes and suddenly see, with perfect clarity, the hidden web which fate has been spinning for you?

Suddenly you see bits of your life flash before your eyes and all of the unexplained puzzles, all of the out of character decisions, the bits of good and bad fortune in your recent life – they all make sense. There was a reason behind it all.  It all had a purpose.  And the purpose was that moment, those eyes…

No – no – that’s being sentimental/romantic/silly.  Things like that don’t happen in REAL life.

Except it DID happen in real life - in my life – 9 months ago.

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Coming soon …

My Australian Story – Part 2 – We Meet

Days of My Life in Bondi 2026 – Episode 5

Archived from Sep 2008
If you missed the last episode – catch up on it here.

Episode 6 – The One Where Daisy Becomes the Boy in the Relationship

Remember how CommitmentPhobe was doing too much yapping and not enough kissing??  Well here’s what I learned about him.  blah blah blah he’s never really been in love blah blah blah he has commitment issues blah blah blah can’t imagine EVER getting married blah blah blah and every girl he’s dated has not only fallen in love with him but been absolutely heartbroken at the break-up because he’s such an amazing catch and he is everything a girl is looking for blah blah WHAT?? Every girl falls in love with him because he’s Mr. Right?

HOLD UP!!  Mr. Right? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!  Yeah right is more like it!!!

A guy that full of himself is NOT Mr. Right and when I left him (though I did agree to give him my number) I didn’t actually expect to hear from him again. A man THAT great must have plenty of other fish to fry …

So imagine my surprise when only TWO HOURS after I left him I got a call from him.  WHAT??  Hello?!?-  I JUST SAW HIM!  I didn’t answer and that’s when I realized I’ve turned into a boy.

Isn’t it supposed to be ME who needs immediate reassurance?  Isn’t it supposed to be ME who is needy and calling too much?  When did I become the boy in the relationship?   (and yes I know not all girls are like that and not all guys are insensitive)

This guy – this independent, type A personality, hot, successful, intelligent guy who is Mr. Right left me a message that was long and rambling and said he hoped I wasn’t screening his phone call etc etc blah blah blah.  Oh and something about how it’s ok if I screen The Guy Without A Nickname‘s calls but not his … blah blah blah.

So the grinch (me) grew a heart AND a conscience (I decided there’s no reason to not talk to him) and called and left him a message. He called me back – but only had 2 minutes to talk so he asked if he could call me back again later (why didn’t he just wait until later?) – and then when he called back later he only had 4 minutes so he asked if he could call me AGAIN later that night (again – why didn’t he just wait until later the first time!!!)  Oh my gosh.  Oh my gosh.  Oh my gosh. I got four calls from him that day.

I got four calls from him in ONE DAY!!!

The last call lasted an HOUR!!!  And he tried to book my Wednesday AND Saturday night at once.  Except I had finally had enough of being so accommodating and I said to him, “Hold on – are you really trying to book two nights at once right now?”  I probably shouldn’t have done that but COME ON!!!  I have other men to date!  

Then Mr. Secure immediately backtracked and was like, “Oh no I was just opening it up for discussion.  Let’s catch-up tomorrow night for sure and then maybe we’ll just pencil in Saturday.”

yeah … definitely Mr. Right …

Or since we’ve done a complete role reversal… maybe it’s ME who is Mr. Right. ;)

Up Next: Episode 6 – My Life Flashes Before My Eyes

Episode 4 – What does Daisy decide to do?

Archived from Sep 2008
If you missed out on the last Episode in The Days of My Life in Bondi 2026 you can catch up on it here.

Ok so there we were – NOT KISSING in a way on the street because kissing really tall, hot, intelligent men with accents is gross!!  When I was faced with a decision.  Do I take CommitmentPhobe up on his offer to shuttle me out of the cold?

Please feel free to EXTRA roll your eyes right about …. NOW.  I decided to say yes no.  Yeah that’s right – I said yes no and was like pretty much in shock when somehow we ended up cuddled up on the balcony of his flat, (to stay warm of course) gazing at the moon’s reflection on the clear ocean water just below.

The rest of it went pretty much like this: blah blah blah blah blah – except it really WAS blah blah blah blah blah. What??

??  ??

That boy is a talker! Want to know where he got the name CommitmentPhobe? How about from the hours he spent explaining his fear of commitment to me when he SHOULD have been kissing NOT kissing me!!

I’m not going to lie – it was like WHOA!  Ok!  Thanks for OVERSHARING!  Glad to know you have those issues and felt like telling me.  But for real … are we not at your flat after you so not kissed me on the street?  Did you think I was serious about your having cooties?  Because I was … but now that you’ve been talking to me about your relationship issues before we’ve even gone on an official date … well … I’ve changed my mind!!!

You’re emotionally unavailable?  Sign me up for that ride!!!  And that’s when I practically fell in love with him because I’ve always loved unavailable men best!!  yay!! Or maybe I just got bored and decided to change HIS mind …

So insert a little blah blah blah of the kind and please don’t be surprised that he bothered to get my number this time – hmm, imagine that .

UP NEXT:
Episode 5 – The one where I become a BOY.  Poor me – for real.

Episode 3 – After the Hot Chocolate with Soy – CommitmentPhobe wastes no time …

Archived – from Sep 2008
Before I tell you all about Episode 3 – I just have to say there are bugs flying all over and around in my room – it’s freaking me out. I think they want to eat me.

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It was late at night and we shortly discovered we had very few hot chocolate options. Oh no!!

We settled on getting hot chocolate to-go from a pizza place. Because ya know … any place that specializes in something OTHER than hot beverages is BOUND to be yummy-super-delicious YAY!

The pizza place was closing so we had no choice but to take our take-away cocoa for a leisurely stroll. BUT!! It was a touch breezy so CommitmentPhobe decided we should get a jumper from his car first… to keep me warm. I told him I was fine/tough. He ignored me. And off we went to his vehicle.

Should I mind that CommitmentPhobe was so insistent on being a protector? Well I sure didn’t mind him protecting me from the homeless dude and since we all know I AM a “country girl” I’m going to have to go ahead and say that no I shouldn’t mind and CommitmentPhobe was being a perfect blue role gentleman. I thought it was sweet. )

Ok ok … so we reached his car and he totally kissed me. Full blown, no inhibitions, have-at-it kiss. On the street, outside of his car, in full public view. And NOT a peck like last time. Oh no – he kissed me like he’d been waiting a LONG time for it (which hello!?! he HAD been waiting a long time because he was a loser and didn’t ask for my number the FIRST time!!!) So I’m like “Well hello there. How you doin’?” and I kiss him back don’t do anything because boys have cooties and that’s gross.

Like 10 minutes later as we’re still making out on the street Ahem. Apparently I need to get more control of my strikethrough!!! GROSS!!! So like 10 minutes later as I’m still refusing to kiss him because boys have cooties … I realize OMGOSH – HELLO! we’re on a PUBLIC street and there are TONS of people walking RIGHT NEXT TO US and tons of cars just breezing by. Umm yeah … CommitmentPhobe doesn’t care. No, no, no, he’s wasted enough time already and yeah … he obviously has no issues with PDA.

But seriously – how long can two people stare at each other NOT KISSING on a public street before they should probably stop? I’d say a lot less time than we did…

So CommitmentPhobe invited me back to his place and please feel free to roll your eyes. I told him, “Oh I don’t know…” and before we go any further with this story… have I mentioned how hot this guy is yet? Because if I didn’t …

Go ahead and roll your eyes again.

UP TOMORROW:
Episode 4 – What Does Daisy Decide To Do?

Episode 2 – The One Where I’m Mistaken For a Homeless Prostitute

archived from Sept 2008

The One Where I’m Mistaken For A Homeless Prostitute

CommitmentPhobe and I ended up running into each other again. Hmm … imagine that. It IS a small world after all. I was still feeling bitterly scorned from our first encounter when he didn’t bother to get my number and I won’t lie, I was half tempted to ignore him. And yes, I KNOW he thought he would see me again soon and could get my number later but the world isn’t THAT small and he shouldn’t have taken the chance!

I quickly reluctantly agreed to go with him for a Hot Chocolate with Soy.

We decided to try somewhere new and drove to a very seedy part of Sydney. CommitmentPhobe found a place to park and I jumped out of his very nice car. Unbeknownst to me, we were in a “Red Light District” area of town and it appeared that a high profile client had just left me on the corner.

Before I had time to blink I was approached by a homeless man. He was very sweet? I think you could call it that … and he asked if I was hungry. He had enough food to share. Then he asked me if I had a place to sleep that night because it was going to be very cold.

I had no idea how to react. I was completely stunned. I’ve never been mistaken for a prostitute before (outside of the one time in Vegas with Shezza and that doesn’t count because it’s VEGAS and all the drunks think every girl is a prostitute.) I started stammering a response and was greatly relieved to feel CommitmentPhobe take my hand and direct me across the street.

Not long after crossing the street we discovered the homeless dude was FOLLOWING US!!! He followed us for over 2 blocks and kept trying to ask questions about my nationality, my eye color, my height etc. CommitmentPhobe being a perfect gentleman, moved his arm to around my waist, securing a position between me and the man, and politely deferred every question so that it wasn’t necessary for me to say a word.

UP TOMORROW:
Episode 3 – After the Hot Chocolate with Soy – CommitmentPhobe wastes no time …


The Days of My Life in Bondi 2026 – Episode 1

Oh yeah – that’s right. My life is really a soap opera. I’m the script writer of course – hey – I couldn’t trust that important role to just ANYONE – but yeah – it’s a soap opera. Most defini-doodily.

And I’ve decided to be a little better about letting you in on it. :) Here is the first episode that I need to fill you in on …


Episode 1 – My First Meeting with CommitmentPhobe

Was it love at first sight? Absolutely not. He insulted my American status within the first few seconds of meeting me. It had been a rough day. I wasn’t in the mood. I lashed back with a full dose of sarcasm mixed with a little spicy feisty.

He wasn’t expecting that.

Our flirtatious disses turned into full blown flirting and “just dinner” turned into hours of talking after. (feel free to gag at any point)

He was hot, cheeky, intelligent …

Midnight approached and it was time to say goodbye. An awkward goodbye. The first hug was stiff – he could have been a LEGO. The second hug was better.

Then he walked away … paused … and turned around. I raised an eyebrow and smiled coyly. He walked back, gave me a quick kiss, just grazing my lips and then he was gone.

And that pretty much sealed his loser status because he didn’t get my number and yeah – I hope he regretted that terrible mistake.

UP TOMORROW …
Episode 2 – “The One Where I’m Mistaken For a Homeless Prostitute”

Ya know … the sad thing is – all these episodes are from my REAL LIFE!!!